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Keeping a positive mindset in a toxic work environment can be an extremely difficult task. I've spent some time in toxic work places and motivating workplaces and there is a vast difference between employee moral …

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Men’s Odds of Picking Up

Submitted by on Monday, 9 May 2011No Comment
Men’s Odds of Picking Up

Often time I come across some male friends of mine who are single, ready to mingle but plain and outright are too nervous to approach women. The thought of rejection and being the laughing stock of the night gives them sweaty palms and a slurred speach. Yikes! Well for my rejection feared male friends, here is an interesting static for you that I read in a reputable magazine. Every nine out of ten women you approach, will reject you. The more interesting thing is what drives this statistic. While I wont go into a tremendous amount of detail, i’ll tell you that lack of confidence in a man and coming on too strong could deter her from you. The last a girl wants is a pushy guy in the club who puts their arms around her without asking. For those guys who are reading this and saying “yup that’s me”, be a little more mindful, it’ll get you nowhere.

Now the bright side is for every nine girls that deter you, there will be one prized gem awaiting you on the other end (its almost like a fairy tale). The more important thing to note is if you feel nervous and scared to approach a girl, you’re not alone. Have some comfort in knowing that you’re fellow man chaps along side you have the same fears with nearly the same statistical results (unless you’re some celebrity of course).

The moral of the story is no different than important lessons in life, it takes hard work and perseverance to get where you want to be, this includes the person you want to be. Dont be afraid to take risks (or get rejected) along the way. Its a part of the learning lessions of live and something that every male experiences at some point in your life. Stay confident and positive and she’ll be right there on the other end waiting for you.

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